The Silent Struggle No One Talks About
You wake up every day carrying the weight of everything—your career, your family, your faith. You’re doing everything you’re supposed to do, but something still isn’t right. You’re exhausted, second-guessing yourself, and no matter how hard you push forward, it never feels like enough.
The respect you once had? Fading. Your connection to God? Distant. Your confidence as a man? Shaken.
And worst of all—you feel like you can’t talk about it. Because real men handle their own problems, right?
But deep down, you know that staying on this path only leads to:
More stress that you carry in silence. More disconnection from your family, your faith, and yourself. More missed opportunities to step up as the man you were called to be.
You don’t have to keep carrying this alone. There’s a way forward.
You Weren’t Meant to Fight Life’s Battles Alone.
On the outside, you look like the rock—steady, reliable, strong. But inside? The pressure is relentless. The weight of leadership, the expectations, the unspoken burdens—it never stops.
Maybe you’ve told yourself that real men don’t ask for help. That pushing harder, grinding through it alone, is what strength looks like.
But real strength isn’t standing on your own—it’s having the courage to stand alongside men who refuse to settle. Because the men who rise aren’t the ones who suffer in silence—they’re the ones who surround themselves with others who push them higher.
What’s Keeping You Stuck Is Way Closer Than You Think.
Other men who have been in your shoes—who have battled through the same struggles—can see exactly what’s holding you back. And they can show you the way forward.
When you surround yourself with men who refuse to settle, everything changes:
They challenge the lies you’ve been telling yourself and hold you accountable. They see the strength in you—even when you don’t—and refuse to let you play small. They push you to rise, take ownership, and lead with confidence.
You weren’t meant to figure this out alone. And you don’t have to.
A Life of Purpose Isn’t an Accident
It’s a Choice.
Every man reaches a breaking point—when confidence wavers, relationships strain, and purpose feels out of reach. You might even be there right now.
The question is: What are you going to do about it?
You can stay where you are, watching from the sidelines as life keeps passing you by… or you can step up, take action, and start leading the way forward.
This is where transformation begins.
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"Faith, fellowship, mental toughness—Mike highlights the personal qualities of the True Man while emphasizing the power of brotherhood." - Jeff Nelligan
Meet Mike Van Pelt: A Man Who’s Been Where You Are.
For over a decade, Mike Van Pelt has walked alongside men who are tired of feeling lost in a world that has distorted what it means to be a man—men who are ready to reclaim their confidence, stand firm in their faith, and step boldly into the life they were called to lead.
As the host of the True Man Podcast and author of True Man True Ways: A Roadmap of Discovery to the Masculine Heart, Mike’s passion for mentoring men comes from his own journey—navigating the struggles of faith, purpose, and leadership, and discovering what it truly means to live fully alive.
But here’s the real turning point:
Mike didn’t do it alone.
He joined a men’s group. He surrounded himself with men who saw the things he couldn’t see in himself. And for the first time in a long time, he stopped surviving and started truly living.
Now, he’s here to guide you to do the same.
The True Man Community is Growing
Will You Step Into It?
Men are already walking this path together—men who hold themselves to a higher standard, who refuse to coast through life, and who are committed to growth in faith, leadership, and purpose.
This isn’t for men who just talk about change—it’s for those willing to do the work. In this community, you’ll be held accountable, challenged, and supported by men who live by these principles:
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Faith & Integrity – Living with purpose and standing firm in what you believe, no matter the pressure.
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Accountability & Brotherhood – Being surrounded by men who push you forward and don’t let you shrink back.
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Leadership & Strength – Taking responsibility for your life, your family, and your purpose.
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Action Over Excuses – Talking less, executing more. Real change doesn’t come from just thinking about it.
This is a community built for men who refuse to settle.
A new group is forming now, and there’s limited space for those ready to step up. If you’ve been waiting for the right moment—this is it.
"Mike is your trusted guide. You’ll discover practical ways to strengthen your faith while taking charge of your relationships, health, and purpose." - Randy Pryor
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"True Man True Ways is a powerful and thought-provoking guide for men looking to embrace true masculinity and faith. With heartfelt insights, Mike leads readers on a journey of self-discovery and resilience, inviting them to define their own path as a 'True Man.' This book addresses the struggles men face, from loneliness to finding purpose, and offers a roadmap to navigate life’s complexities with strength, grace, and faith." - Dr. Ed Slover